At some time, we all seem to be there. You meet a girl, get a real interest in her, get to understand her better. Time passes and the two of you build a friendship. You want to make a pass, then, and she insists she'd rather only be friends. Where have you gone wrong? Yeah, here are a lot of ways you went wrong.

The Most Common 8 Reasons Why You Got Friendzoned

You’re Boring

There are a few slight indicators of how you can tell that the other person's eyes are bland. When you hang out, do you always stay silent because you want it to be all about the other person? It just seems like there's nothing you need to say. Are you still the one who texts first to hang out together and spend time? It just seems like there's nothing you need to do. Now, what are we calling someone who doesn't have something to say and nothing to do? Just. Exactly.

You’re a Smoker

To non-smokers, that's one of the things you can do that is least appealing. We all have unhealthy habits, and not every bad habit has to affect the way stuff like smoking, gambling, heavy drinking, etc... does on your intimate relationship. The least you can do is realize it's irritating and say that finally, you want to quit. Maybe you'll even mean that one day, too.

Relationship History

I know we're not to call it slut-shaming, or we'd feel guilty for people lifting an eyebrow at people who've had a pretty turbulent past of marriages, but the truth remains that certain people are going to do so, and it's completely their privilege. Think of it as a resume, where businesses would be less likely to recruit employees every single year who move jobs.

No Signals Whatsoever

Somebody is going to have to draw a line at some point when you have fun together. There's a chance that you won't be pursued by anyone, so wouldn't you find out sooner rather than later? If they have no intention to romantically pursue you, there is no need to spend months of energy and time in a guy. If they don't want the same thing, give out clues, send out signs, encourage them to pull the plug on it for you.

You’re a Sibling, Not a Partner

Don't be the guy on traditional dates who don't want to go because you don't want to send vibes out too fast. You wonder who else doesn't go on usual dates anymore? His siblings. You become a sister or a brother, not a future mate. You set yourself this goalpost, don't fault the other party for your words being misinterpreted.

There’s An Annoying Factor About You

It could be your voice, your laughter, the pace at which your eyes twitch, just name it. There's just something about you that annoys individuals at the foundation level. It may not necessarily be something that you can support or a dilemma that you can remedy, but it does happen. And it's not only going to bother your prospective girlfriend, but it's also going to upset their parents, relatives, friends,... Try and work out what it is and how you can play around it.

You Try Too Hard

There's no such stuff, any romantic can tell you, but the romantic is either single or a liar. Everybody that dates has insecurities. They all know they aren't fine. It's not cute to go beyond and beyond; it's weird, psychotic, and borderline psychopathic.

One of The Guys/Gals

It's plain logic. If person A does something with friends around person B, person A will inevitably become part of person B's peer circle. Person A is going to get nice and mad at person B, who is going to be none the wiser.

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